We are reading this book as part of a newlywed small group with our church.
There is definitely some good stuff in this book, and overall I would say it's opened our minds to what marital sex should really be about (serving your spouse!). Our sex life has improved after reading this book - so for that I give it a good review.
However, a lot of the ideas this author proposes are downright silly, and way too many pages are devoted to them.
This author also seems to believe every man and woman fit into the stereotype of the man always wanting it, the woman always denying and being unadventurous. He acknowledges a couple of times that this is not always the case, yet he does not devote any time at all to couples whose sex life problems don't fit the stereotype.
With my pregnancy, my husband and I have had some issues of him being not as interested in the bedroom department. I was downright offended when the author stated that the solution for this problem was to drop your towel on the way to the bathroom to give him a little eye candy. Seriously? That's your ingenious solution??? I couldn't believe that was the only advice offered for this problem.
So not a great book - but enough good stuff that it should at least help most marriages. And if you're a wife who's always denying her husband, or if you're a frustrated husband with a frigid unadventurous wife - well then this book was definitely written for you.Get more detail about Sheet Music: Uncovering the Secrets of Sexual Intimacy in Marriage.
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